everything is going all fine.. than out of no where there is this sudden feeling of emptiness.. i am jus lying down in bed, and somehow i feel like i am all alone.. all lone in this huge world... maybe its beco i am far away from home.. maybe i am just missing my loved ones.. or maybe i am jus feeling empty coz i dont have someone with me, someone to love, to care for, who would care for me.. i am ready, so ready to give my love... to live with a person i love.. alot of my friends are terrified of the thought of getting married.. and that makes me think, if i have someone who i just love to bits and i know tht we are meant to be together, that nothing should worry or scare me right.. if i have that someone, and i know the age and time is right, i would be more than ready to get married and spend the rest of my life with him... i mean shouldnt that wad love mean? my friends are in a friggin relationhip for 4 or 5 yrs but they still say "i am not ready to get married, or maybe she is not the one" which makes me wanna totally slap them.. if you think they are not the right one, than wad the hell re you doin being with them?? arent you jus wasting their time?? seriously, cant you wake up!!!
i was talking to my best friend kalei a few days back.. we were just updating each other on our happenings.. and she is was telling me abt this guy.. i know him since day one.. that was in secondary sch.. for almost 10 yrs they have been having this whole confused relationship.. alot like what me and ismail have.. friends yet not friends.. its shit i tell you.. and talking abt ismail, that bugger didnt even wish me for my bday.. i am not gonna say anything though.. maybe this is how we will fallout.. which is a good thing i guess.. i don wanna be his mistress.. yet i know that i cant say no to him when he talks all sweet to me.. i am such an idiot when it comes to love.. i may talk all big and look all tough but i really am not..
than there is titus.. yesterday (on my bday) he messaged me that he neve wants to talk to me again.. and than in the afternoon he messaged me and said how sorry he was and that he was super drunk and all.. than i asked him what made him say such a thing and he said that he knows that i am neve gonna go back to him, and that he feels like he is desperately coming after me.. that he cant move on.. and he is trying but does not know how to.. he asked me when i will move on, and i told him, "when you stop talkin to me or when you move on" and than i added on "or when the time is right" he replied "you mean when you find the right guy" and i said yes.. so he knows that he is not the "right guy" for me.. and he knows that i am jus waiting for the right guy.. i felt so shitty coz it really sounded like "hey you know wad, i am using you until i find someone else, than i am nto gonna talk to you anymore".. i am such a horrible person.. than it got me thinking, why do i keep going back to him? why do i need to talk to him so bad? maybe he like aa best friend to me, maybe he is someone i cn talk to abt anything.. i know he will always be there for me.. so maybe i jus need the comfort and assurance.. i know i keep going back to him coz he loves me alot and when shit hppens in my life, i jus need the love.. i jus need to feel love and i go back to him.. and when everything goes okie in my life, i realise i dont need him and dump him.. horrible horrible being.. if only i can keep myself under control.. all this loniness, i hate it.. who likes to feel lonely right.. and than i see some of my friends being so happy in a relationship.. all lovey dovey and stuff.. and i go like "i want that".. i want someone who i can proudly say is my bf.. someone i know my family and friends approve of.. yes i have this need to please ppl.. i need approval from my family and friends.. one of those problems i have.. i cant live for myself..
state of confusion.. do i wanna be here or do i wanna go back to a place where i know comfort, familiarity, somewhere i know its my home..another major confusion.. i wan to be at both places.. its like you have not eaten or drank anything in 10 days and someone asks you to chose between either water or food.. but you cant have both.. its a nightmare.. why do things become so complicating as the yrs go buy.. bdays arent jus abt presents and party and cake anymore.. its more of "shit another yr older, by 26, i wanna have my own place, engaged and settle down, which leaves me another 3 yrs.. and it takes abt 3 yrs for me to get comfortable with a guy and trust him and know him in and out for me to get married.. this means that i have to find a guy right now!!!" WTF right.. so many things still unknown and so little time left.. its like i know that life altering things are gonna happen anytime soon, and i have to be ready enough to embrace it.. wads gonna happen next? who am i gonna meet? what job am i gonna take? which is more important, comfort zone of comfort of living? jus thinking abt all this makes me wanna kill myself.. or better alternative, drown in booze.. -_-
