had a long chat with my sis yesterday.. it was a very random chat.. i have no idea how the topic came about in the first place.. but anyways i felt so much better after that..

the gist of the conversation was basically that i can get whatever i want.. i am 23, an age where i have to make tough decisions and its difficult.. especially when it come to love life.. i would see my frenz around me getting engaged and married it its gotta be difficult for me.. but i can chose what i want.. this feelings that i am getting about ismail is perfectly normal.. but i have to think if is he what i want? love is not the only thing which can sustain a marriage.. and i have seen that on many occasions.. if there is even one thing that i utterly cannot stand about my partner, than its clear that he is not the right one for me.. life is not all about giving in.. its jus part of it.. so why make my life difficult for myself by choosing the wrong person.. if i believe that there is someone perfect for you out there, than i will jus have to wait and get it.. instead of settling for something which is clearly not going to work out..

there was a reason why i broke up with ismail and even though i cant completely remember it, i made a choice.. it was a good one.. why doubt my choice.. instead of repeating the same mistake, and feeling stupid about it afterwords, jus don make the mistake..

but you see i know all these.. i felt way better today when i woke up.. i told myself "fine you have sent the message, whatever he is gonna reply, he will but i am not going to jus think about it and waste my life".. soooo i am not going to think abt it.. like as if thatz gonna happen.. but i am definitely going to try.. i do want a perfect life.. a perfect partner and i will find it.. i am not going to deprive myself of love just because i got left behind once.. i deserve the happiness and bloody hell i am gonna get it..